what you got up to/did before your lobster came into your life, what you looked like, hobbies, where you lived, who your friends were etc.
When & where did you meet?
Who picked up who?
What did they looked like?
Think about their hair style, clothing choice style in general
Did sparks fly or was it a slow burn?
Perhaps a specific photo, bio wording etc
Perhaps:
Your first date or your first kiss (if you remember)
When did you officially become a couple
Who said 'I LOVE YOU' first? Where were you/what were you doing when it was said?
Or even things like moving in together, adopting fur babies, career changes, big holidays and anything in between!
Who popped the question?
When & where!
Was anyone else involved in the planning/keeping secrets etc?
Did anything funny or extra special happen?
What was the response of the other person at the proposal?
What did they say/do?
Were they shocked/surprised?
E.g Chocolate in the fridge, toilet paper over or under etc
Perhaps every anniversary you always go back to the first restaurant you had a date at, or you have weekly Grill'd dinners or you have a monthly picnic to debrief/plan your month ahead.
Is there a fun game or quirky saying that you both do/say everyday? Or are there any significant places (locations), movies/TV shows, books or songs that mean something special to you as a couple?
I love any pet involvement in the ceremony so let's chat about the furbabies and what they mean to you!
Things they do, personality traits, how they make you feel etc
Examples:
“We both sing in the car like rockstars and hate slow walkers.”
“We’re introverts who love quiet nights and have the same love language.”
“We eat dessert before dinner and constantly forget where we parked.”
Examples
~ I’m super organised, they’re more go-with-the-flow. I need a plan, they wing it. ”
~ “I love mornings and they’re a certified night owl — I’m up with the birds, they come alive after 10pm.”
~ “I want to travel the world, they’d happily stay home forever… but we meet in the middle with short trips and cosy weekends in.”
Could be that they have a very specific night time skin routine or that they always wear socks to bed etc...
E.g. Do you promise to always take the bins out or pick up the dog poo? Do you promise to start ordering your own chips and stop saying 'I don't want any chips' and then proceed to eat their chips?
I.e. an old stuffed toy, a tattered T-Shirt they wear to the gym etc.
Perhaps it's getting breakfast in bed every Sunday or never having to do things alone again!
Feel free to tell me anything extra!
